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From our survey, 96% of the respondents told us that they ‘strongly agree’ or ‘agree’ that their mental health was negatively affected by their baby/babies’ neonatal stay. This indicates that a large majority of parents on the neonatal unit will be suffering with their mental health, which reduces their ability to provide hands-on care for their baby, be involved in decision-making about their baby, or take part in ward rounds.  

Pie chart showing what percentage of respondents felt that their mental health was negatively affected by their baby or babies neonatal stay. 96% responded 'agree', 2% responded 'disagree' and 2% responded 'neutral'.
Pie chart showing what percentage of respondents felt that their mental health was negatively affected by their baby or babies neonatal stay. 96% responded 'agree', 2% responded 'disagree' and 2% responded 'neutral'.

Parents experienced the following:

  • Feeling tense, anxious or nervous
  • Feeling overwhelmed  
  • Feeling panic or terror, despair or hopelessness
  • Having difficulty sleeping

Some told us that they felt unable to talk to people and had suicidal thoughts or feelings. 

Only 39% of respondents to our survey of parents who have had a neonatal experience remembered being offered support with their mental health when they were on the neonatal unit. Of those, 60% went on to access the support. 

 

Pie chart showing what percentage of respondents were offered support for their mental health by staff while they were on the unit. 50% responded 'no', 39% responded 'yes' and 11% responded 'not sure'.
Pie chart showing what percentage of respondents were offered support for their mental health by staff while they were on the unit. 50% responded 'no', 39% responded 'yes' and 11% responded 'not sure'.

Those that didn’t access the support gave reasons including:  

  • Not feeling ready or able at that time
  • Not realising that they needed support
  • Being overwhelmed by what was happening
  • Not being able to focus on anything other than their baby/babies
  • Feeling nervous or embarrassed