My wife, Clare, and I had an indication there was something not quite right at our 20 week scan and were referred to fetal medicine. By 23 weeks our daughter was growth restricted and there were issues with the blood flow from the placenta. Clare also had pre-eclampsia and she was hospitalised on a number of occasions, each time the likelihood that we would need to deliver increasing. At 24 weeks we were told it was likely that our daughter would need to be delivered within the next two weeks, based on my Clare’s preeclampsia and the deteriorating blood flow. This was super scary for everyone, and we really didn’t know what to do at that time, or how things were going to turn out.
In the end, and after an extremely stressful few weeks (defying some of the odds in terms of delivery date), our daughter, Isobel, was born at 28+3 weeks, weighing 717g on 16th December 2024. A 2024 baby was not on our bingo card - her due date was 7th March 2025! There was enough time for Clare to have one steroid shot and some magnesium just before delivery. Izzy was born in a pretty good state considering her size, but we weren’t able to hold her straight away.
We live in Leeds and so Isobel was born at Leeds General Infirmary, where the NICU is amazing, and, in retrospect, we were extremely lucky to live 10 minutes away from such an amazing facility.
The first few days of NICU life were a bit of blur, with Clare still admitted because of the C-section, and a mad labrador to look after at home! Isobel did reasonably well over the first few days, albeit ‘well’ is relative, and I think we have already normalised the amount of medical things that happened during our stay.
Isobel needed blood transfusions, was under blue lights for jaundice, was monitored for suspected sepsis and NEC and had a variety of other issues. Isobel had a variety of oxygen requirements starting with being intubated at birth but moved to high flow after two days. She was also moved from the ICU to HDU after three days. This was a bit of a shock to us, but a positive one, nonetheless.