Due to having a frozen embryo transfer, I was on progesterone pessaries until 12 weeks’ gestation to help keep the pregnancy going.
When I stopped these as planned, I quickly experienced intense pressure and bleeding, so I asked if I could have them again. As soon as I did, I felt better.
Everything was going fine until at 23 weeks and three days, when inserting my pessary I felt my waters bulging through my cervix. Quickly I called the maternity triage unit and they told me to come in straight away.
On the way there I could feel I was contracting and when the doctor examined me, she found that my cervix was open 1cm and my waters were bulging when I contracted. She said straight away that she was sorry and that my baby didn't really stand a chance at this gestation.
I was rushed to labour ward where I was handed nifedipine tablets to try and stop my contractions - I had to have them very frequently at first and then every few hours. They did help and my contractions slowed to a stop. I was also given a course of steroids to help the baby's lungs and magnesium to help slow labour down and protect baby's brain.
The entire time I was in labour, my hospital (a level two unit) were in contact with the local level three unit begging them to take me because I was so early. They had space for my baby but not for me on the labour ward, so she would need to be stabilised and transferred once she arrived if she was still with us.
On my third day of labour, the consultant called the level three once more. They told them something different this time - they had space!
It was very high risk putting me in an ambulance as my baby was already half way through my cervix. If the waters broke in the ambulance she would come out very quickly and they would be less able to help her.
I told them I wanted to go, and they made it happen. I was blue lighted from Croydon University Hospital to St George’s in 11 minutes.
Once I arrived at the level three it was all systems go - they were doing examinations and ultrasounds to estimate her weight to best prepare for her. I spoke to a neonatal doctor who asked whether I'd like my baby to be allowed to pass peacefully or if I'd like them to intervene if she was alive.
I asked them to please do everything that they could. He let me know that at her gestation about four in ten babies survive at this hospital, with one in four having a severe disability. It was very difficult to take all of the information in, I felt like I was in a movie.
The same day I arrived at the level three, my contractions started back up and after about eight hours, my waters broke and she was born seven minutes later.
My baby was alive, though floppy and with a very slow heartbeat. The doctor managed to intubate her on the second attempt and I asked my mum to take a video of her for me.
They quickly let me peek at her as she was rushed out of the door and told me to come and see her in two hours when they'd stabilised her.
I decided to name her Kaiah - it means little, but wise. I think it suits her perfectly.
